We miss our opportunities of love, happiness, career and success because we refuse to learn the lessons that come our way. When a new opportunity comes, we would rather stay safe instead of taking a risk. We have been told to fear the future and to believe in the past.
All PAIN and SUFFERING is giving us an emotional sign to change our current circumstances. When you don't change, more pain and suffering will come your way. FEAR dominates the world's energy and keeps us from having the life we could have. We just live in a state of regret and sorrow.
HERE ARE THE 5 LESSONS WE REFUSE TO LEARN:
When an opportunity comes our way it forces us to:
1. CHANGE. - Life is Change. People who do not change are left behind. The unhappy people of today refuse to change.
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2. Have more COURAGE - It takes courage to live a happy life. It takes courage to love again, to believe again and to smile again. The more courage you have, the better the life.
3. To connect with your INSTINCTS and disconnect with your mind. The real objective of your mind is to make sure you fail. Your instincts are trying to get you a new and better life.
4. To believe more in YOURSELF. What you believe is what will show up in your life. When don't really believe in yourself, nothing will work out.
5. Stop blaming anyone and take ACTIONS. If you would like to know why you are not so happy or successful well... find a mirror and you will find the person stopping you.
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ONCE YOU LEARN THESE LESSONS YOU WILL HAVE THE LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED! www.bernardhiller.com Acting and Life Coach
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FAQs
What are some reasons why people miss opportunities? ›
- Wasting time. The quickest and most regular way to miss an opportunity is to waste your time. ...
- Mixing with the wrong people. ...
- Not focusing. ...
- Not taking risks. ...
- Fear.
- Understand That Everyone Makes Mistakes. ...
- Focus on the Present. ...
- Accept what happened and how you can learn from it. ...
- Don't dwell on what could have been. ...
- Create a plan for next time. ...
- Be prepared to seize opportunities. ...
- Don't let missed opportunities define you. ...
- Stay positive.
to not use an opportunity to do something: She missed the chance of promotion when she turned down the job of assistant manager.
What is the feeling of missing opportunities? ›A toxic offshoot of FOMO is what I call Opportunity FOMO—or fear of missing out when it comes to career and professional development. Constantly questioning and doubting elements of your work life can negatively impact your performance, your sense of job satisfaction and your work-life happiness.
Why am I afraid of new opportunities? ›Many people are afraid to get a new job because their identity and self-worth are tied to their current job. Naturally, the idea of moving to a new job can feel like you're transitioning your identity and that can be as unsettling as looking in the mirror and seeing someone else's face instead of your own.
Why am I obsessing over my future? ›But excessive thoughts about the future can be a sign of anticipatory anxiety — a fear of unpredictable future events, which is sometimes a symptom of anxiety disorders. This is something I often see in my patients. If left untreated, severe anxiety can cause trouble sleeping, headaches, chronic pain and depression.
Why do I obsess over things that didn't happen? ›False Memory OCD refers to a cluster of OCD presentations wherein the sufferer becomes concerned about a thought that appears to relate to a past event. The event can be something that actually happened (but over which there is some confusion) or it can be something completely fabricated by the mind.